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Honeymoon: Planning Your Adventure

Posted by Chrys on July 14th, 2008

The wedding is just the beginning. There’s plenty of excitement planning the honeymoon as well, from choosing a travel adventure to deciding on what to bring along on the journey. And for many, planning this great “escape” is just as important as planning the actual wedding.

Regardless of where you decide to go, there are some things you should know to make it the kind of experience you want it to be.

First, you must decide on a budget. If money is not an issue, bon-voyage! However, if you’re like most engaged couples, you’re already paying more than you anticipated. Establish a budget and use it as a guide.

You’ll also need to decide whether you want an all-inclusive, one-price-does-it-all, leave-the-wallet-at-home type of trip, or a more do-it-yourself package with car rental, lodging, food, and activities on an a la carte basis. Cruises technically fall under the all-inclusive category, as do resorts.

Of course, honeymoon budgeting takes on a new meaning if you decide to do a “destination wedding”. These are becoming very popular as more and more couples decide to forego the traditional wedding costs in addition to the honeymoon expense and are especially popular for second marriages. It’s easier to get married in some countries than others, so be sure to check with a reliable source, like a country’s consulate or the U.S. Department of State, before making any arrangements.

Now you need to book and pay for this trip. Many honeymoon suppliers offer special rates for early booking, which may or may not include airfare. Packages that include airfare can offer significant savings because retailers buy airline seats in at a discount, then package hotel, and sometimes car rentals as well.

You may also want to consider using a honeymoon gift registry to help with expenses. Check with your local travel agent to see if they offer this kind of service or you can investigate more on the internet.

Here’s a quick list of Honeymoon Registry Sites:

Honeymoon registries allow guests, friends and family to contribute toward specific elements of your honeymoon, like shore excursions, parasailing, spa services, and tours.

Wedding Night & Honeymoon Worksheet

Wedding Night

Hotel: __________________

Address: _______________

Phone: ________________

Cost/Includes: _________

Features of room/suite:

_______________________

Reservations made: ___

Confirmation #: _______

Honeymoon

Destination: __________

Departure date: ______

Return date: _________

Travel Agency

Name: _______________

Contact person: ______

Telephone #: ________

Airline: ______________

Depart. fight: ________

Return flight: ________

Car Rental

Agency: _________________

Location: ________________

Phone #: ________________

Date of pickup: __________

Return date: ____________

Insurance: ______________

Hotel/Resort

Location: _______________

Phone #: _______________

Confirmation #: _________

Check-in time: __________

Check-out time: _________

NOTES:

_____________________

Your Honeymoon Budget

Before You Go…

Wardrobe necessities: _____

Luggage: _________________

Passport/passport photos:

________________

Inoculations/medicines: ___

Sundries (suntan lotion): __

Extra pair of sun/glasses: _

Child care/pet care: _______

Camera & film: ___________

Transportation To Your Honeymoon

IF FLYING…

Airfare for two: ___________

Transportation to/from airport:

_________________________

_________________________

Long-term parking: ______

IF DRIVING…

Rental car: ______________

Gasoline: _______________

Tolls: ___________________

Snacks/meals on the road:

_________________________

Other:

_________________________

avel Package Yes No

Total Cost: _______________

Expenses while at destination

Lodging (rate x nights): ___

Transfers form airport: ____

Breakfast for ____ days: ___

Lunch for ____ days: ______

Dinner for ____ nights: ____

Snack for ____ days: ______

Tips for ____ days: ________

Entertainment (such as shows, tours, local sights, museums, etc..): __________________

Mementos from trip: ________

Other: _____________________

___________________________

Transportation while at destination

Rental car: ________________

Gas: ______________________

Public transportation: ______

Taxi: _____________________

Rail express (Europe): _____

Inter-island transfers: _____

Other:____________________

After The Honeymoon Checklist

Write thank-you notes for your gifts. Every gift-giver should receive a handwritten note within a month of the wedding.

Preserve your wedding dress. Have your gown, veil and headpiece professionally dry-cleaned. Inquire about various storage methods.

Deposit wedding gift checks, bonds, stock certificates. Pay outstanding wedding bills.

Develop film, choose photographs & review the videos. Develop any film taken at the wedding and on the honeymoon. Review photographer’s proofs; review wedding video to determine edited length and special editing techniques. Choose photos for wedding album and order wedding prints for yourselves, relatives and friends. Put other photos in albums.

Get together with family and friends. Invite attendants, friends and family members to your home to view the honeymoon photos and video.

Discuss a home budget and financial goals.

Evaluate your insurance needs. Consult your agent on health, car and life insurance, which may have to be adjusted to reflect married status. Have wedding gifts appraised and insured.

Honeymoon Registry

Posted by Chrys on January 8th, 2008

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One way save money on your honeymoon expenses is to have a honeymoon registry! With the average age to marry increasing, most couples are living on their own before they get married, and have all the household things they need! This is part of the reason why many couples are considering honeymoon registries. If you are one of those brides who really doesn’t want a bunch more ‘things’, and would love a nice honeymoon instead, consider a honeymoon registry!

Most travel agents and tour operators will offer a honeymoon registry service. You can visit your local travel agent for more details. There are also services that will allow your guests to purchase particular parts of the honeymoon, so they know what they are contributing to! One of the ones we liked was www.honeyluna.com but there are many more.

Once you have registered, have your friends and family spread the word:) You can have some fun with it to. Get yourself a free website with a site builder and use it to share wedding and honeymoon details:) You can track how much has been contributed, share the wedding plans, post thank-yous to those who contribute, and include information on were to contribute for those who need to know:)

You could also have a “Honeymoon Shower” with a suitable theme (beach theme for a beach honeymoon, etc.) and guests can contribute to your honeymoon as their shower gift to you!

Bed & Breakfast Honeymoon

Posted by Chrys on October 5th, 2007

On piece of advice that I have often given brides is to consider a B&B honeymoon. Generally, when you are working with a limited wedding budget, you have a limited honeymoon budget as well. There are plenty of great options out there for lower budget honeymoons, but there is nothing like an inverness bed and breakfast for a honeymoon. A bed and breakfast has a few great benefits:

1. Location - you can usually find a bed and breakfast close by, no matter where you live. By choosing to have your honeymoon in a place that is within driving distance, you can save a bundle on airfare.

2. Intimacy - A B&B is kind of like a mini hotel - with all the perks and less of the distractions. In fact, you can find bed and breakfasts that only offer one or two rooms for guests, which means you will have a great deal more privacy in the B&B and outside as well.

Of course, one bed & breakfast is not like the next. Each will offer a unique location, a unique environment and a unique experience. A little researching will mostly likely find you a perfect, romantic B&B for an affordable and yet unforgettable honeymoon.

Dublin Destination

Posted by Chrys on July 13th, 2007

Destination Feature: Dublin, Ireland

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Looking for a unique wedding or honeymoon destination! Most people automatically assume that a honeymoon at an all-inclusive beach resort is the best bang for your buck - but that’s not always true. Thanks to the internet and the amazing amount of information available online - planning your own honeymoon to just about anywhere can be both a fun and cost friendly option!

Ireland may not be your typical destination for a bride and groom - but it is unique, beautiful and definitely a memorable occasion. And it can be affordable if you are willing to do the leg work to find the best deals on Dublin Hotels, flights, activites and actractions, transportation and even meals. For example, you can find Dublin Hotels for as little as $30/night! Not a bad deal at all - that’s only about $210 if you stay for an entire week!

Who needs to lie on the beach when you can be touring romantic castles, visiting old style pubs, taking in historic sites and museums, and visiting or even getting married in historic churches that date back to the sixteenth century! SO romantic!

Bed & Breakfast Honeymoons

Posted by Chrys on January 13th, 2007

One thing I hear a lot is “I can barely afford the wedding, we can’t afford another $3000 for a honeymoon. We’ll take one later.” My response? “You only get married once - you need to celebrate it. You can honeymoon without spending that kind of money.”

How? By changing you definition of what a honeymoon is. You don’t need an exotic location or a expensive resort - just a quiet, romantic place to get away from everyone and enjoy your first days as husband and wife.

So how do you do that? A bed and breakfast! These small hotels are generally much more private and intimate then a hotel for a number of reasons. They are smaller. generally with only a few guests at a time which means you have more privacy. They are often located in unique, quiet places with beautiful scenery and romantic, character homes.

You can find Bed & Breakfasts in almost any area you wish, like the Dallas TX Bed And Breakfast.  Prices vary, but if you pick a location that is only a few hours away you can easily find a location that will allow you to have an entire weeks honeymoon for less then $1000. Still to much - make it a weekend and spend just a few hundred.

In the end - the point is just to get away for a little while so you don’t spend the first days of your marriage fielding phone calls, surprise visitors, etc.

Saving For Your Honeymoon

Posted by Chrys on January 6th, 2007
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I get a lot of questions from bride’s - it comes with the job. When planning a budget wedding, many brides don’t even consider the option of a fancy honeymoon. Who can afford to spend $3000 on a honeymoon when that would almost double you wedding budget? I also have a lot of brides who want to know what to do when they already have everything and don’t really need the things a traditional registry includes. A honeymoon registry is the perfect solution - almost. The problem with most honeymoon registries is that they are impersonal, expensive and full of loop holes you have to jump through in order to use the travel money collected.

The solution? Traveler’s Joy! The FIRST thing that caught my eye with this site is how easy it is to use. I took me a matter of minutes to set up an account, and a honeymoon page. Not only that, but unlike most most travel registeries there is no set up fee. You do pay a small withdrawal fee when you take the money out later, but even that is less then other travel registeries! And, if no one uses your registery, you pay nothing!

After creating my sample page - which you can see there, I looked into some of the options. For example, as you can see on my page, you can list specific parts of the honeymoon, even specific meals or events, which guests can choose to purchase instead of just giving money for a more personal gift. You can include pictures, information on your honeymoon plans, and they even have built in tools you can use to let everyone know were you are registered!

When one of your guests visits your personal honeymoon page, they can use their credit card to purchase specifics parts of your honeymoon, or just give money towards the total cost - either way, you receive an email letting you know so that you can thank them. They also have the option of purchasing a gift card to go with their gift….Incidentally - stats show that guests will give more if they can use a credit card - so a registry like this may result in large gift amounts as well!

SO, so far this all looks great. My last question - and the one I’m sure you all are waiting for was: great - but were am I allowed to use the money? Most honeymoon registeries are affiliated with specific travel agencies or travel packages which limit your choices. Travelers Joy is completely different because it is not affiliate with anyone at all. At any time, you can withdraw the money that has been gifted so far and use it were ever and however you please! That means you can go ANYWHERE and use ANY AGENCY you please! That is a flexibility you won’t find at most honeymoon registeries.

To make the most out of your honeymoon registery - read this article on their website: Honeymoon Registries: A Guide to Asking for Your Honeymoon as a Wedding Gift

Ten Wedding Words

Posted by Chrys on September 18th, 2006

We Launched WEDDING WORDS on Sunday, and I am VERY excited to bring your our first ten WEDDING WORDS list:) Check out these great sites - the first to join our Wedding Words list!!!

dress - gifts - COUTURE - shower - photography - candles Designer - honeymoon - Fundraising -  Gown

Vendors - need a unique way to get your link out there? Wedding Words are affordable and effective! Click here to get your exclusive word on the Wedding Words page

Panama = Paradise

Posted by Chrys on September 18th, 2006

Meet Estelle Reyna - supermodel, celebrity star, travel connoisseur. Why would you care? Because: if you are looking for information on honeymoon destinations, Estelle.tv, Estelle’s website featuring travel information and podcasts, is something you do not want to miss!

So, this travel lover, who has seen places all over the world. If you were to ask her what destination she recommends most, her answer would be - PANAMA - “the ultimate paradise for lifestyle and business“. Estelle’s celebrity status has played a key factor in enhancing the discovery and image of this small country located in Central America.
Some of her Favorite Destinations and Resources:

Seen here at the grand opening of the Playa Bonita Resort & Spa, Estelle highly recommends this beautiful hotel and spa located on the golden beaches of the Pacific Ocean. if you click on the link above, you can watch Estelle walk you though the resort, it’s many wonderful features, and even some of the spectacular activities available for guests! If you fall in love with this resort, as I did, they even have a special Estelle Fan package option!

Now that you are hooked on Panama, take a moment to watch this interview with Ruben Blades - movie and music star, and now the Minister of Tourism in Panama. He shares some interesting information for tourists to help you prepare for your honeymoon. What you should see, cultural events and tradtions, features you should know about, and more.

Looking for more options? Another location that Estelle recommends is the Gamboa Rainforest Resort - a beautiful 5-star resort located in the middle of a beautiful Paname Rainforest! On her website, you can watch a video that will walk you though the resort, local attractions, shopping and more. Imagine, you and your new husband, falling asleep to sunsets like this one, in the romantic rainforest setting of the Gamboa Resort! An Estelle Fan Package is also available.

Honeymoon Idea: Fun in France

Posted by Chrys on September 14th, 2006

I say honeymoons, most people say Jamaica, Bahamas, Mexico, Florida, etc. If you are looking for something a little more unique and exotic: how about skiing in the Charmonix Valley of France? Not a fan of the cold? How about rock climbing?

Of course, anything in France is romantic - but many brides are looking for something romantic but more fun then sitting on the beach. Skiing and rock climbing are both a great way to get physical and have a blast for the couple who is a little to adventurous for white sandy beaches!

Basically, a honeymoon can be anything you want it to do. When you start planning a honeymoon, most people start with the expected choices and go from there. I suggest that you start with your interests. If you were just going on vacation, no wedding involved, would you still want to go there? Pick a vacation destination that you would be attacked to for ANY vacation, and you are more likely to really enjoy your honeymoon.

French Riveria $37/night!!!

Posted by Chrys on July 30th, 2006

Here is another great resource for all you brides-to-be looking looking for affordable honeymoon options. Rentalo is a great site that contains a complete database of rental cabins, lodges, etc world wide! From Canada to the Bahamas, California to Paris - were ever you want to go, you can find great deals on private vacation rentals here!

Some examples:

A Coral Beach Condo in the Bahamas starting at $64 per night - that’s cheaper then a hotel!!!

A two bedroom apartment in the French Riveria for $37 per night - NO KIDDING!!!!!

A Banff Boundary Lodge for as low as $61 per night!

What really shocked me was that I could find an apartment in the French Riveria for $100/night less then the cheapest place in Puerto vallarta, Mexico!! On a two week vacation, you would save $1400 - more then enough to cover the extra flight costs!!Â