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School Sweethearts Save The Date


I LOVE this Save The Date from Wedding Paper Diva’s – it’s unique and fun. It would be perfect for couples who were school sweethearts but it could be used for anyone. I know I would enjoy seeing little kid pictures of the couple on the Save The Date.

School Sweethearts Save The Date

School Sweethearts Save The Date

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A-ha Moments


I’ve had a significant number of “that’s it” aha moments during the course of our lengthy engagement… and a few important ones pre-engagement too!!

J and I are both television producers at the same television network. In fact our offices are right across the hall from each other… which I think is cool… But our co-workers probably get sick of me yelling out “J come here I have to show you these custom monograms/bridesmaid’s bouquets/centerpiece mock-ups”… who am I kidding, I’m sure he gets sick of it too, but the wonderful fiancé he is, he rarely acts disinterested!

At the very beginning of our relationship J and I were in St. Louis, my home town, for an even our television network was putting on.  Since the event was in my hometown I went as an attendee, he went to work.  I drove 10 hours to get there.  He flew non-stop 1 hour to get there.  The girl I drove with ended up getting ill and flying back, so I was stuck by myself to drive 10 hours without any company.  J offered to give up his quick and easy flight to join me on the loooong drive…  in a compact car!  His sacrifice spoke volumes to me.  That’s the official moment when I knew he was the “one”!

I had the same aha moment when J and I were shopping for rings.  I put one on that I thought was way out of the budget but “knew” it was the “one”.  I felt like Cinderella when I tried it on.  And felt like the luckiest girl alive when he popped the question with it!  I still catch myself staring at it!  And I still feel like the luckiest girl alive!

Not long after J proposed I found myself in a Michael’s (let’s be honest girls, isn’t that where most newly engaged diy budget brides find themselves!? Haha).  And came across this LOVELY black and white damask invitation set, by Brides.  I “knew” they were our invitations.  Despite the fact that I hadn’t done ANY invitation research yet, I called my mom and she bought every box in the St. Louis area, with a 50% off coupon.  Cheapo!  Can’t wait to find some great ways to make them a little more custom.  Maybe a belly band?  Or a great monogram?  Who knows, I just loved them and knew they would set the tone for our dreamy delightful diy damask wedding!  ;-)

I HEART THESE
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The Best Invitation EVER!


I think Matt & Jill’s invitation has got to be the best invitation I have ever seen – hands down. I love that it is so personal and original – and it just screams personality. By the time I finished reading this invitation – I wanted to be at the wedding! You can tell it must have been one amazing party and the couple sound like people I want to be friends with.

Working on your invitations? Add some personality. You don’t have to go as far as this – but find a way to let your personality show. Use colors, unique wording, custom inserts or other little details to really make it memorable.

The Best Invitation EVER!

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My Budget Friendly Invitations


In the past, I have mentioned that my hubby and I are planning to renew our vows for our tenth anniversary. This past week it occured to me that we have less then 4 months left and I haven’t done much planning! In fact – all I had done was book the venues, pick colors and pick up some candy buffet jars lol. So this week I’ve been working my butt off getting plans in order AND I ordered my invitations!

Get this – 100 Invitations and 250 RSVP cards (cause that’s the smallest order option) for $30!

How? VISTAPRINT! Yes, I swear lol. In our case, we are doing things a little less formally since it’s not a wedding so we asked guests to call or email for RSVPS. Since the RSVP cards don’t have to be mailed – we used a design from the free business cards they offer. Then we designed out invitation using the matching standard size postcards which are $25 for 100 – plus $5 for matching envelopes. I had them printed with a blank back since we won’t be sending them as postcards.

THE RESULTS:

My Budget Friendly Invitations

Some Ideas:

If you need to be able to have your RSVP cards mailed back to you, you could either pick up envelopes at your local office supply store that are large enough to be sent int he mail. Or – create your invitation on an oversized postcard (50 for $20) and use the standard sized postcard for your rsvp. 100 invitations with RSVPs and envelopes would still be only $80!

A few more VISTAPRINT designs I liked:

My Budget Friendly Invitations

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Interesting Envelope Idea


Interesting Envelope Idea

Derek & Sharon shared this inverted security envelope idea on Design Sponge earlier and I thought it was worth mentioning. Now, probably not a great idea for wedding invitations – but it’s a very neat way to dress up thank you notes. They  are very affordable – all you need is a little glue. They are also environmentally friendly, since you are reusing envelopes rather then throwing them out. Visit Design Sponge for simple, easy to follow instructions.

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Planning A Fourth Of July Wedding


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julia rose anna red wedding dressWhenever you plan a wedding theme, the first thing to do is pick a key point. For a beach wedding, this might be the color blue, or sea shells. For a 4th of July or Memorial Day wedding, red, white and blue – and flags, are the obvious choice. So, how do you plan a red, white and blue wedding that is gorgeous and affordable? Well, let’s take a look:

Start with the clothing. For the bride, a stunning red and white wedding gown, like ANNA shown here. For the groom, a white or navy blue suit with a red vest and tie. The flower girl will look beautiful in a red gown with a navy blue sash, to match the navy blue bridesmaid gowns. The groomsmen would be in navy or white tuxedos with navy vest and tie. Personally, I think white would look amazing. Tuxedos with tails and top hats would also be stunning. Finish of the look with red necklaces for the girls, and blue for the bride – and red roses for the bouquets and boutinierres.

For wedding invitations, use a navy blue cardstock, with a frosted vellum overlay printed with your information. Tie the two together with a red ribbon, and seal in an envelope with a flag sticker or a wax seal.

garterFor the ceremony, decorate the center aisle with a white aisle runner. At the edge of each pew or row – place a pew bow of white tulle decorated with red and blue ribbon, ivy and a tiny US flag. If you need to fit into a smaller budget – put them only on the first few rows were immediate family and honored guests will be sitting. If you want an archway at the alter, decorate it with white tulle, red and blue ribbon, ivy and tiny flags to match the pew bows.

There are two unique guest book ideas that come to mind. You could take a large piece of parchment and have your names, date and place written on top in old fashioned calligraphy. Distress the paper, and tie it with a ribbon for a week or so before the wedding – so it has the just unrolled look. Have guests sign – just like the fore fathers did. Of, find a flag that is large, but small enough to still hang on a wall. Have your names and dates embroidered on the center, and then have guests use fabric pens to sign on the flag. This flag can then be framed and hung later on.

Remembrance – You may want to do something to remember those who gave their lives as well. Place a small side table with three candles – red, white and blue somewere were it will be seen. Place a wreath of red, white and blue flowers in front. This could be placed by the guestbook table, or near the entrance to the sanctuary. It could also go in the reception hall near the cake table or in front of the head table if you wanted.

For reception décor, use white table clothes. Decorate the head table with tulle, ribbon, ivy and tiny flags as you did the pew bows. For the guest tables, you can use small flower arrangements of red carnations with blue and white ribbons, and a little flag in the center. Accent the centerpiece with red, white and blue confetti. Oil lanterns with an old fashion look would also make great centerpieces. If they are clear –red and blue oil make a great touch! If you are using table markers – name each table after a founding father or a state. A rose bowl with a floating candle would make a great centerpiece as well – just tie red and blue ribbon around the top.

This is the perfect wedding theme for an All American Bar-B-Que! For an informal wedding, offer a buffet of freshed grilled beef and chicken burgers, fruit salad, potato salad, coleslaw, etc. For a more formal wedding, bar-b-qued chicken with baked potatoes is perfect. A cake or dessert dish decorated with strawberries and blueberries is the perfect end to the meal. We have another article posted on red, blue and white wedding cakes for a 4th of July wedding as well -you can read it here.

And for a finishing touch – don’t forget to leave the wedding in a bang: yes I mean fireworks. Plan for a fireworks display to take place as part of your farewell as you and your new husband leave the wedding! If you are not able to have fireworks, opt for some amazing 36” sparkles for guests to use to see you off!

AFTERTHOUGHT: Eagles would also make a great addition to your decor for a July 4th wedding. Don’t think eagles are romantic? You might change your mind. Eagles are one of the few animals on earth that mate for life. When a pair of eagles meet, they will soar together as high above the clouds – male chasing female. Then, she will allow herself to fall. If the male catches her on his back – they will remain together for the rest of their lives! What a wonderful display of love, trust, and faithfulness. “When you soar, I will soar with you. When you fall, I will catch you.”

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Justice of the Peace Wedding Question


Hello,

We are on a ‘tight budget. We are planning to be married at the Justice of the Peace; because we just had a baby (yes backwards!) and cannot afford a big or small wedding right now. I have 2 questions how do you ‘announce’ you’re getting married (at the JOP) without making the guests feel cheated or slighted and any ideas on how to have a reception later also without making the guests feel like they were cheated out of seeing us get married??!

ANSWER

After the wedding, send out annoucement cards. The cards, much like invitations should state:

If you already know when you are planning to have the reception:

_______ & _________

are pleased to announce the marriage of their daughter

______________________________

to

_______________________________

son of __________ & _________

The wedding took place on

_______________________________

You are invited to join us in celebrating this union with a reception in the new couples honor to be held:

___________________________________

Details will follow.

If you don’t know when you are planning to have the reception:

_______ & _________

are pleased to announce the marriage of their daughter

______________________________

to

_______________________________

son of __________ & _________

The wedding took place on

_______________________________

A reception in honor of this union is being planned. Invitations and details will follow shortly.

 

Now, that takes care of letting people know that you are married and that a reception is being planned. There will be some people who will wish they could have seen you exchange vows. What you can do is make that part of the reception. Not a full ceremony – but a short program during which you exchange vows and rings publicly, either on your own or with a officiant there. There is no legal need to do this, but in almost all cases, those who would have been offended will be happy with that.

If you want, you can also include that on the annoucement:

You are invited to join us in witnessing the exchange of vows and rings, followed by a reception in the new couples honor to be held:

or

A public exchange of vows and a reception in honor of this union is being planned. Invitations and details will follow shortly.

If you are having a pastor or preist there: use Public exchange of vows and blessing of the rings(union), etc.

One last note: the annoucement above was written as sent by the parents.

Here is the layout if you wanted to send it from your baby:

___________________________________

is pleased to announce the marriage of her mother

______________________________

daughter of

___________________ & ______________

to her father

___________________________________

son of

_________________ & _________________

If you want it sent by you:

_________________________________

daughter of

__________________&_____________________

and

______________________________________

son of

________________________ & ____________________

are please to announce their marriage, which took place:

 

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Fixing Invitations


Fixing Invitations QUESTION: Hello,my daughter is getting married this June. Several months ago she had her invitations professionally done. For personal reasons they now need to change the church & reception names,times. Is there anyway to fix the original invitations,like using wordpad, select the type to invitation’s letter style. Or would there be a better way to cover-up the wording to put the new arrangements on them it’s too expensive to have them completely redone.Your help would be greatly appreciated.

My Answer:

It really depends on the style and type of invitation. If it is white, you could use a roll on type of white out and then try and print over them. Do some test ones first to make sure you have the line up right. Another option would be to print the new information on labels and stick them over the old information. It will not look as great as the first ones, but at will be cheaper then new ones.

Here is another option that would look elegant and be affordable. Stop in at your local craft or scrapbooking store and pick up some solid paper in a different color, light enough to print on though – maybe in the wedding color. If you pick 12×12 papers, you may be able to do 4 invitations per paper, depending on the size of the original invitation. These papers are usually less then a $1 each, so 25 cents per invitation!

Then, cut the papers into pieces about 1/2 an inch smaller then the invitation inside. Cut one first, and place it over the text to make sure it actually covers all the invitation wording. Then, cut the rest and print all of the invitation wording on to each on. You can then stick them onto the invitation over the original wording! It will look like they were meant to be there! I recommend using double sided scrapbooking “tape”. It holds well and will not bunch like glue, which will keep it looking professional and clean!

Hope that helps:)Questions and let us know!

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Wedding thank-you notes you can afford


Thank-you notes are important, but between the wedding fits, the showers, and the engagement parties, the list of thank-you notes to send can really add up, not to mention the postage costs! Here are my suggestions for ways to say thank-you on budget:

1. If you plan on sending out photos, include you thank-you with or on the photos, so you only have to pay postage once!

2. Use phone if they are local – personal thank-yous are always appreciated, and have a special touch.

3. Skip the cards! You can buy thank-you cards to match your invitations, but this is an expense you don’t need! Instead, pick up some nice note paper or blank cards at the dollar store and write a nice personal note.

4. Hand deliver thank-you notes to friends and family you see often, or better yet, say thank-you in person!

5. Send E-mail thank-yous! Make sure the e-mail is personal, addressed only to them, and mention WHAT you are thanking them for! You can even attach your wedding photos to share at the same time!

6. Combine Thank-yous – keep a list of items received through-out the engagement and wedding events – then send one thank-you to each person/couple, thanking them for the wedding and engagement or shower gifts at the same time.

Use a combination of methods if you wish – say thank-you in person to those you see daily, e-mail those who have e-mail, call the local ones who don’t and finally, mail out thank-yous to those who don’t fit into any of the above options. There is no rule that states that every one must receive the same thank-you:)

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Affordable STD’s


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