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Yummy Wedding Shoe Bling
Posted on July 22nd, 2010
Just a quick post to show you two pairs of shoes I fell in love with today:) They are both from Fredrick’s of Hollywood – but totally wedding worthy! (Click on image to find them online)
Rhinestone Teardrop Sandal $44 & Wraparound Rhinestone Sandal $35
Posted by Crystal in Bridal StyleChoosing a Florist
Posted on July 20th, 2010
You already know what to do — you just don’t know it.
How does the florist market their product?
I usually recommend using the Internet as a resource for finding two or three Florists whose body of work appeals to you. I’d start by paying particular attention to the Florist’s website. Websites offer a first glimpse into a designer’s attention to detail and pride of workmanship. Websites that look like they were cobbled together by an amateur and that showcase poorly photographed images do not usually make a good first impression. What does the quality of the website have to do with the quality of the floral design, you may ask? A Florist is part of the design community. How a Florist showcases his or her products is a direct reflection of their eye for design. A Florist who is unwilling to invest a few more dollars to improve their image is hardly what I would consider a design professional. There are however exceptions. Florists who are new to the business but might otherwise be very talented designers may not have the financial means to have a wonderfully designed website. Finding these diamonds in the rough may take a little more effort, but the next few steps should help.
Does the Florist’s design style appeal to your own sense of style?
A Florist’s past work is a great indication of what you could expect. I’m always amazed by how many brides pick a Florist without feeling a connection to some of that Florist’s past designs. This would be a good indication that the Florist may not be the best choice for your sense of style. Florists tend to develop a unique design approach over the years and it may not be in keeping with your own. The more innovative and seasoned Florist will display a much wider range of design flair and creative styles. Remember, if you don’t see at least a couple of arrangements that grab your attention, it might be time to move on. The chances of that particular Florist bringing your vision to fruition are fairly low.
Do your personalities bloom or wilt?
Once you’ve decided on a few Florists, it’s time for the interview. I don’t mean that you have to prepare a scripted set of questions… it’s far simpler than that. Begin a dialogue with the Florist and get a feel for his or her personality. Can you easily relate to her? Is he attentive to your design requests, or does he try too hard to persuade you to see things his way?
Being aware of your own personality will also help with the selection. If you’re a little indecisive, it may help to have a Florist who can steer you in a particular direction. If on the other hand you’re the type of person who knows exactly what she’s looking for, then perhaps a Florist that’s excited and eager to execute your vision is a better match for you.
How do the Florist’s prices fit with your budget?
This is always a big one. You should determine early on what type of clientele a particular Florist services. It doesn’t make sense to start a conversation with a Florist whose clients predominantly represent movie stars and fortune 500 executives if you have a small to modest budget. Don’t be afraid to ask what price range a Florist usually works within. It helps to reference their past work and simply ask them what the cost was for a specific arrangement or bouquet. This will give you an idea of what kind of budget you may need in order to work with that Florist.
Go with your gut.
In the end, your gut feeling will rarely steer you wrong. You do know what to do — trust your instincts. Choose a Florist who makes you feel confident and excited about what he or she has to offer you for your wedding. And since a Florist needs to bring a sense of calm to the wedding process, choose a Florist with whom you quickly and easily develop a meaningful and comfortable relationship.
written by: Joe Baum
Joe & his wife Mary own The Silk Canopy — a silk floral business specializing in bouquets, destination wedding flowers and other personal flowers. If you ask Joe, he’ll tell you that his wife is the real talent behind their awesome designs… he’s just the guy in the back room.
Posted by thesilkcanopy in FlowersThe Real Deal #26
Posted on July 17th, 2010
I haven’t done a real deal post recently but today I found two gowns that I wanted to share:) Both of these gowns are fantastic deals – take a look!

This dress is being offered for $75 – it is used and needs to be dry cleaned but for $75, even after dry cleaning it’s a great deal! It’s a size 14 with a train that bustles and a tie back and includes a garment bag. Check out more pictures of this great wedding dress here.

Okay, this one is a little more expensive at $400 – but it’s brand new. The seller purchased it 6 months ago and never wore it. It’s a size 4 and has amazing embroidered detail on the bodice and skirt. There are more pictures of the dress and embroidery details here.
Posted by Crystal in Bridal Gowns & Accessories, The Real DealThe Great Alcohol Debate
Posted on July 16th, 2010
Post #1 in my Cross-Blog Conversation with Ashley of Bride on a Budget.
Earlier this week, I introduced you to Ashley and our Cross-Blog Conversation. I started the conversation by asking Ashley how she felt about Cash Bars/Dry Receptions and what she did for her recent wedding. Ashley responded and shared her views on the issues as a recent budget bride.
Alcohol is one are that can really sink a budget and also one area that raises a lot of controversy as well. In my opinion – there are three ways you can cut down the cost of each – and each one is appropriate in some instances and not in others.
1. Cash Bar – Ah, the ever controversial Cash Bar lol. To be honest – when I first started in the wedding industry I was surprised at the response you get online when you mention a cash bar. In the area that I live in – cash bars are standard. Every single wedding I have ever attended here had a cash bar – with the exception of a few that were dry. EVERY SINGLE ONE – from $5000 weddings to $25000 weddings. To be honest – I have no idea why it is that way here – it just is – and when we were married 11 years ago, we had a cash bar. It wasn’t even something we discussed – it was just the way it is here. My opinion on cash bars is this: IF its what your guests are expecting. IF it’s acceptable in your circle of friends/family. And IF you are still providing plenty of non-alcoholic beverages. IF you meet those three conditions – then go for a cash bar and save your money for something else. BUT if having a cash bar is going to offend or shock your guests, don’t do it. Move on to option #2 or #3.
2. Dry Reception – AKA – an reception sans alcohol. When we renewed our vows last summer, we had a dry reception. This worked for us because we were having a much simpler reception this time around with a dinner and dessert but no dance. My younger sister was married earlier this year. Her fiance and herself choose to have an early afternoon wedding followed with a snack/dessert and punch reception. Because the wedding and reception were both during the day, no one expected alcohol anyway. When it comes to etiquette, you, as the host, are required to provide food and refreshments. That does not have to include alcohol. Keep in mind though that if you want to have a party and have your guests dancing late into the night – an dry reception is probably not the way to go.
3. Limited Bar – I think a limited bar is often the best compromise. I’ve seen this done a number of ways. Some brides go the way that Ashley did with a limited bar selection. This allows you to offer a selection of signature drinks while maintaining more control over the cost of the alcohol being used. If you want to have a wider selection for your guests, you could have a selection of signature drinks available for free and then have other options available through a cash bar. Guests are not required to buy their own alcohol – but if they want something different then you have offered, they do have the option to purchase their own. Another option is to have an open bar during set times. For example, you might offer wine at the tables during dinner and then open the bar after dinner for 2-3 hours.
So that’s my take on the issue of alcohol at weddings
Ashley will have her final say and introduce our next topic early next week.
In the mean time – have your say in the comments. What are you doing to help control the alcohol costs at your reception?
Posted by Crystal in Blog Conversations, Food and Meals
Camo Wedding Pumps from Wild Diva
Posted on July 15th, 2010
Back in 2008 we tackled a question from a bride looking for ideas to create a camo themed wedding that was unique and yet still tasteful. The Camo Wedding post has been our most popular post since then – and still gets more traffic then any other individual post on our blog! I guess it’s a hot topic lol. Personally – I LOVE the camo theme idea – provided it’s done right.
Today I am MADLY in love with these shoes:

Bumper Caleb01 Platform Pumps from CutesyGirl.
Looking for Camo wedding planning ideas? Check out our Camo Wedding Category.
Posted by Crystal in Bridal Style, Camouflage Wedding
Wine Glass Cherry Blossom Shades
Posted on July 15th, 2010

I absolutely love these wine glass shades! They transform a standard wine glass into a beautiful cherry blossom candle lamp that can be used as part of your centerpiece. The shades are very budget friendly (about $1.30 each). Your venue/caterer may have wine glasses you can use or you can rent them for a very low cost from a local wedding rental shop.
Posted by Crystal in DIY Weddings, Decorations, In Our StoreBlog Conversation with Bride On A Budget
Posted on July 14th, 2010
I am excited to tell you about my lastest project! I am teaming up with Ashley of Bride On A Budget for the next month to bring you a cross-blog conversation on a few hot button topics. Ashley is a newlywed who planned her own recent wedding for under $7000! You can learn a little more about Ashley on her about me page here.
Ashley and I will be going back and forth, debating over a series of topics that brides often argue about (Cash Bar anyone?). You’ll be able to read my half of the conversation here, and her half on Bride On A Budget. Don’t worry – we’ll be including links back and forth in each post so you can track the conversation and join in with your own views and opinions on the different issues as well!
So – this week we’re going to start off with a topic that comes up often with budget conscious brides: Alcohol! Alcohol is one of the many things that can carve a dent in your wedding budget. Controlling alcohol costs brings up topics like limited bars, cash bars and dry receptions. So here is my question for you Ashley – how did you control the alcohol costs at your wedding and how do you feel about the concept of a cash bar or a dry reception?
Visit Bride On A Budget and add her to your feed reader so you don’t miss her answer later this week:) I’ll be back with my side of the conversation after Ashley has her say.
Posted by Crystal in Blog Conversations, EtiquetteDress Of The Week: Mori Lee Style No. 6301
Posted on July 12th, 2010
Dress Of The Week is a weekly feature where we highlight a designer gown that we LOVE and that you can buy for under $500.
This week’s Dress Of The Week comes for the Voyage collection by Mori Lee. I absolutely love the detailing on the bodice of this dress – it’s simple, understated and so elegant! The chiffon fabric gives it a light, flowing feel which is perfect for a spring or summer wedding. While this dress retails for $599 – we found it on House of Brides for only $398.

Have you found a fabulous gown for under $500 that we should feature in the future? Leave a comment
Posted by Crystal in Bridal Style
Keeping Memories
Posted on July 10th, 2010
I realize I haven’t shared many details or pics from my vow renewal last summer so over the next few weeks I will make an effort to do that. Today – one particular detail is on my mind. Yesterday would have been my brother’s birthday. He was two years younger them me and passed away 10 years ago this fall. When my husband and I first got married in 1999, he was in charge of the music for our outdoor ceremony and he also helped ushering.
When we planned our vow renewal for our 10th anniversary, I wanted to have something done in honor of him. We set up a table at the reception with a basket for people to leave cards. I displayed a “Live, Laugh, Love” candle holder that I had at home with a mounted scrapbook page I had made in his honor a few years back. I also included a photo of him from our wedding in a little silver frame. The flowers are actually my bouquet which I placed on the table once I arrived at the reception.

Are you doing anything at your wedding in memory of a loved one?
Posted by Crystal in Real Weddings
AMAZING Snail Garden Centerpiece
Posted on July 8th, 2010
I am so totally madly in love with this centerpiece from Jane & Joe’s amazing DIY wedding. It’s so gorgeous and the snails are adorable! And when they say DIY – they mean it! From the flowers and centerpieces right down to the hair pieces and the wedding dress! Check out the rest of this amazing wedding on Punam Bean Photography’s blog!

Photo copyright: Punam Bean Photography







