Archive for December, 2006

If life were like that…

Posted by budgetdreams on December 29th, 2006

I love those Visa commercials were you see something weird happen and then the Visa balance on the bill changes to $0, “If life were like that, you wouldn’t need Visa” Lol, well, chances are you aren’t magically going to have all your wedding bills disappear, here are some freebies that might help lighten the load:

Online Wedding Planner - this one is as good as any wedding planner you would buy in the store, and it is completely free to use. You can do all your planning online and access it from anywhere - that means, you can make changes at work, and not have to redo it when you get home!

The Knot - an all time favorite, with TONS of free planning resources

Wedding Fonts - if you are doing your own invitations/programs, etc - there are some very pretty wedding fonts you can download for free

Invitation Templates - printable, customizable templates for wedding invitations, free to download

Wedding Contests - a list of contests open to brides

Wedding Graphics - clipart, backgrounds, borders, etc

More Free Graphics

FREE WEDDING WEBSITE!!! - most “free” websites are just a 10 day trial - this one gives you 2 years totally free!!!

Money Saving Newsletter - From the author of the amazing eBook - Fire Your Wedding Planner

Magazines and websites are bursting with the latest trends in wedding ideas and themes - and just trying to sift through them can be as overwhelming as actually planning an entire wedding! So take a deep breath, relax and consider this: some of the most unique wedding ideas can be found by looking back to fashions and trends of days gone by.

If you’re considering going the black-tie route, how about an Art Deco 1930s look? It was an era that is reminiscent of elegant Hollywood-style glamour, and you’d be surprised at how much you can accomplish on any budget, large or small.

And for something completely different: what could be more fun than a wedding that evokes the spirit of the groovy 1960s, a time of “peace, love and understanding” – could there be a better theme to start off your married life?

Whether you’re going for funky or formal, here are some suggestions to help plan your idea of a retro wedding:

Polaroid Instant Photo Guest Books

Capture every moment of your wedding day with Polaroid instant pictures and hand-written sentiments from your guests! Polaroid instant photo guest books buck the digital trend and are all the rage among brides today.

Polaroid cameras and photos are definitely retro, and they’re making a ‘new age’ come back because unlike digital or 35mm photos, the Polaroids develop instantly. When they’re combined with notes from all your friends and family the instant photo guest book becomes a memento filled with memories that will last forever!

Hint: Put a couple of outgoing friends in charge of taking the photos and making sure that all your guests write something in your instant photo guest book. They can either circulate during the reception taking the pictures and getting the notes or you can set up a table for guests to visit. And be sure to have a back up camera and plenty of film for “do-overs”!

The Honor of Your Presence is Requested … Retro Wedding Invitations

Set the tone you’re trying to create from the start with wedding invitations that reveal the theme you’ve chosen for your wedding. Custom designs can be easily accomplished with just a few keyboard strokes! Display 1930s-era sophistication with heavy, cream-colored paper stock and deco-style type fonts which can be further accented with period clip art. For your 60s-style invitations, use paper stock in the pastel colors that were popular then – or go all-out and have tie dyed invitations! Think about including flowers in the design as well. These can be printed on the invitation itself – or how about adding some dried wildflowers inside the invitation envelope?

Hint: You can order custom-designed stamps from the Post Office that will reflect the mood you’re trying to convey before your guests even open the invitation envelope! (Some suggested examples: New York’s Deco Rockefeller Center or Empire State Building, vintage cars, a yellow happy face icon, even a Grateful Dead logo)

Dressing the Part … Retro Bridal Ware

There’s no need to wear a bandana or headband or go barefoot on your big day, but a lace dress (mini in length if you dare!) will evoke the hippie era nicely, as will a floral headpiece and bridesmaid dresses in pastels or bright floral prints. If you want an early 60s look, consider a cocktail dress or Jackie Kennedy-style sheath with a white pillbox hat and a netted veil. For a Deco glamour wedding idea, sleek and satiny 1930s-era dresses can be found in vintage dress shops or even at flea markets or thrift shops (there are vintage clothes and used clothing boutiques all over!) They can also be custom made using new or vintage fabric and old patterns – these are often reissued by pattern manufacturers or easily found on eBay.

Hint: When planning your retro wedding, eBay and other shopping websites are terrific resources for all sorts of period bridal ware, decorations and inspirational wedding ideas.

Flour Power … Wedding Day Cup Cakes

Nothing says retro like a tasty, frosting-topped cupcake. You loved them as a kid, and now they’re back in vogue as the height of food fashion. Delicious, colorful cupcakes can be served as the main wedding dessert attraction, substituted for the traditional wedding cake or in addition to a conventional wedding cake. Stack them like a skyscraper or arrange them in a circle to make a peace sign. Cupcakes can easily be decorated in day-glo icing colors for your 1960s look or with silvery accents for a Deco finish.

Hint: Make sure there are enough cupcakes so that your guests can take one home to enjoy later!

A Few of my Favor-ite Things … Retro Wedding Favors

Since your wedding is the start of your own personal love-in, treat your guests to some retro style wedding favors like love beads or peace sign jewelry. Or how about putting together a custom-made CD of classic rock tunes? For the 1930s wedding theme idea, linen handkerchiefs for both men and women will add a nice vintage touch. Or DVD copies of your favorite old comedy movie are sure to delight your guests – and the cover can feature you and your groom in place of Cary Grant and Katharine Hepburn for a fun reminder of your own classic romance!

Hint: If you’re making custom CDs as favors, take a picture with you and your husband-to-be in some vintage clothes to use as cover art to remember the day’s unique wedding idea “old is new”!

Article by:

Lesley Mattos, Founder of Adesso Albums helps people all over the world capture the Now in life’s most important moments. Of all the ways to capture your wedding memories, the Adesso Instant Wedding Photo Guest Book is the only guest book alternative that provides an instant memory of your wedding event in both pictures and words. Shop the complete photo guest book package - including the retro Polaroid camera and film at: www.adessoalbums.com/shop.html

Masquerade Ball Wedding Centerpieces

Posted by budgetdreams on December 9th, 2006

Asked on Yahoo Answers:

Does anyone have any good ideas for table centerpieces? Masquerade Ball theme with feathers, colors are black, white and silver.

My Answer:
Before I opened your question - I was thinking feathers, lol. Masquerade masks often have white feathers on them - I would do a centerpiece in white feathers with black and silver masks set into them. Here are a few ideas:)

Some Ideas Provided By Other Readers:

Weddings that SCREAM Romance

Posted by budgetdreams on December 9th, 2006

Asked on Yahoo Answers:

i want my wedding theme to be ‘romance’. i am looking for suggestions, from everything from colors to decoration ideas. my wedding is in april by the way.

My Answer:

Things that scream ROMANCE:

chocolate
wine
strawberrys
roses
rose petals
red
white
pink
silks and satins
candles
elegant finger foods and fancy cocktails
poetry
elegant fonts
orchestra
lights
dancing
moonlight
stars
instrumental music
horse drawn carriage rides

Some Ideas:
- use famous couples in history, favorite romance songs, etc as table names
- candlelight evening weddings are very romantic, as is dancing under the stars. See if you can rent a tent with “skylights” that can be closed if it rains, but open to the stars otherwise.

Green and White Spring Wedding

Posted by budgetdreams on December 9th, 2006

Asked On Yahoo Answers:

so what should i choose as wedding colors? i like pastel green and white..its an outdoor wedding in may? any suggestions?

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My Answer:

green and white work well on their own - or you could add in pink. lavendar, baby blue, yellow or just about any other color. The great thing with white and green is that they both match everything, lol. Other common colors used with green which can all work for spring in the right hues: orange, peach, chocolate brown, silver

Since it is an outdoor wedding, you will already have a lot of green in the scenery. I would suggest picking one or more complimentary colors to add to the mix to make your wedding stand out from the scenery a bit.

The problem with green is that everyone is so used to it being the accent color that as soon as you add another color, the green takes second string. If you want to avoid that, use a cream or chocolate brown color to add interest without distracting from the green - or use metallic accents like gold or silver instead of color accents.

Another option is to use different hues of green and whites throughout the wedding (dresses, table clothes, napkins, etc) but then add interest by using a combination of pastel colors in the flowers for the wedding party and for the centerpieces. This leaves green as your main color everywhere but still lets your wedding stand out a little.

And lastly, a final option would be to have a theme other then color. For example - have a calla lily theme. Since calla lilys are white and green, you could do the entire wedding in white and green and it would be extremely elegant and the theme would tie it all together and make it very unique!

Stephi Hits It On The Head Again

Posted by budgetdreams on December 6th, 2006

I am a HUGE fan of Stephi and her eBook, Fire Your Wedding Planning - and once again, her newsletter hit the nail on the head - so I thought I would pass it on:)

Oy!

Today’s newsletter discusses a “highly sensitive” subject…

It’s about “making decisions” that might OFFEND people…

Decisions that might COST YOU $1000’s MORE than you can afford to spend…

..or NOT a single extra penny!

It’s all about that fine line between SAVING MONEY and having GUILTY FEELINGS…

Well guilt be gone!

Great practical ADVICE awaits you here:

http://www.fireyourweddingplanner.com/AndGuest

Enjoy!

- Stephi

P.S. : SPREAD THE WORD…forward my tips to your friends and family who are engaged
or planning to get married soon!

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Beverly Hills, CA 90211

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