Can it be done? Yes it can!!!! Most of us have a bit more to work with then that but I thought it would be fun, as a challange, to see if we can make it work!! Let’s say we have 50 guests, and $1000 to work with. This work up is based on average prices in my area, so your prices may vary. Wedding party of 2 and 1 flower girl.
THE WEDDING
Location - Plan for an outdoor wedding in the backyard of your home, or the home of a family or friend. Be creative with decor. Borrow potted plants from friends and family, and get married under a big tree, if there is one. If not, see if you can find an archway from a friend or family member’s garden to borrow as a backdrop. Of make one out of tree branches!! (At a wedding I attended a while back, they decorated with a folding screen, arch and signing table all made from tree branches from their grandpa’s yard!! It was beautiful and free!) Whatever you decide to do, decorate with borrowed items! My signing table was a small patio table with a white table cloth of my mothers!!! For a pen, I used my mother in laws feather pen from her wedding!!! BORROW BORROW BORROW!!! Total cost: $50 for chair rentals.
Flowers - For the flowers, purchase 2 dozen roses in bulk. Use 12 to create a hand tie bouquet for yourself, 2 for the groom, 1 for the best man, 6 for a hand tie for the maid of honor, and 3 for the flower girl. Not sure how to make them, check out http://michaels.com for instructions! Total cost for flowers, ribbon, tape and pins: $50
Music - there are many music options that don’t have to cost you a penny! We had prerecorded music played on my brother’s stereo. An uncle of mine plays piano and played on linve keyboard for his brother’s wedding! If you know anyone who plays keyboard, guitar or violin, those are perfect options! My mom had a friend sing as she walked down the aisle!!! All great options, all free!!!
The officant and marriage license - unless you know someone who does this and would do it for free, this is unaoidable. Marriage license also unavoidable, that is if you want it to be legal anyway. Cost $150
TOTAL FOR CEREMONY: $250
THE RECEPTION
Yes, I ment BOTH for $1000, lol. Now remember, we are talking 50 people here. If you know someone who has a home big enough for a party of this size, ask them about hosting it for you and have a potluck reception. Or, contact a local resturant and reserve their banquet room for a dinner were guests can buy their own meal if they choose. My favorite option is a potluck bar b que, since you are having an outdoor wedding! So we will base our cost on the BBQ idea! All the food would be provided by guests, potluck style. You should have a few family members bringing bbqs for the event. You should also borrow picnic tables - you will need 7 or 8. Cost for location and food: we’ll say $100 because you will need to get a few food things most likely.
Decorating - For decor, I suggest borrowing Christmas lights and stringing them up over head. Then rent table cloths and napkins($20), purchase paper plates, cutlery and cups(40). For centerpieces, try a single rose in aglass coke bottle on each table with 3 clear votive holders and votives($40), and a little bit of confetti($3). Total Cost for decor: $103.
Music - unless you know someone with a band, I suggest prerecorded music. Borrow CD’s from friends and family for a varied collection. $0
The Cake - almost all of us know someone who can cook! You have a fairly small wedding, so have someone make the cake for you, or make it yourself.!! Cost if you have to make it yourself: $50
Favors and Guestbook - purchase a affordable photo frame and put a picture of you and you fiance in it, have people sign the photo mat: $25. For favors, purchase wrapped candies or chocolates in bulk and hand them out as acouple after the meal - great way to mingle: $25 Total cost $50
RECEPTION COST: $303
Wedding Attire:
Tux - if your fiance has a suit or knows someone in his size, borrow it. Otherwise, rent the most affordable one available, with shoes as it is cheaper then buying shoes: $75
Your Attire: This is the most touchy area. You can borrow a dress but brides hate hearing that! My suggestion - buy online. Some great places for gowns under $300 (besides Chrys Cross Bridal) are Ebay, Bridal Auctions, iOffer or Free Wedding Classifieds! Then, borrow jewelry and shoes - or use what you already have. If you do it right, you can look goregous for under $200! That includes hair!! If you have a friend of family member who does hair, have them do it and save even more!! Another idea for affordable wedding gowns - look for bridesmaids/prom gowns!!! For example, we have tons of bridesmaids gowns at Chrys Cross Bridal that can be made in white and would be perfect for a garden wedding, and some of them are under $100!!! SO, we’re giving you $200 to work with.
OTHER STUFF
PICTURES - no, I didn’t forget!!! Make sure EVERY one can think of brings a camera so you have lots of pictures of the event. But appoint on person who you know is creative and will do well, to take posed and candid shots. Spend some time online amd put together a list of the must have shots so nothing gets lost! Check out photo sites and bridal magazines for ideas for creating some memorable shots as well. Use your surroundings. We have a park in town with an amazing gazedo — everyone wants their wedding pictures there, and it’s a free spot to use! Maybe you know someone with an amazing yard or garden? We are going to give your $100 for film, and for developing - that should be more then enough!!
TOTAL: $927!!!!
Bet you thought I couldn’t do it!!! I was going to say to skip invitations and call you guests personally, but we still have $73 left, which is more then enough to make your own invitations!
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